Ep 21: Mary Kay Andrews on Grief, Aging Boldly, and Speaking Without Apology
Reinvention after 70 is not about starting over, it’s about evolving with clarity and courage. On Call Me Friend, Daryn Kagan calls bestselling author Mary Kay Andrews for a raw, honest conversation about aging boldly, personal loss, career pivots, and finally saying what matters most.
Mary Kay shares how she transitioned from newspaper journalism to writing more than 30 bestselling novels, why losing her daughter changed how she shows up in the world, and what pushed her to become outspoken on social media later in life. Together, they explore why evolution matters more than reinvention, how grief and purpose can coexist, and why having fewer filters can actually bring more connection.
This episode also touches on health after 70, finding meaning through advocacy, and why pivoting is one of the most important life skills as we age.
If you are navigating change, grief, or wondering what’s next in midlife or beyond, this conversation will remind you that growth doesn’t have an expiration date.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
✅ Why evolution matters more than reinvention as we age
✅ How Mary Kay Andrews left journalism to become a bestselling author
✅ How grief reshaped her priorities and sense of purpose
✅ Why she decided to speak out politically later in life
✅ How to pivot without a safety net
✅ Why aging can bring freedom instead of fear
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Timestamps
- 00:00 Reinvention after 70 and evolving without apology
- 04:10 Health, aging, and changing habits later in life
- 08:00 Leaving journalism and secretly writing fiction
- 13:20 Getting published by breaking the rules
- 18:40 Creating the Mary Kay Andrews pen name
- 24:10 Losing her daughter and navigating grief
- 28:30 Advocacy, purpose, and speaking out
- 33:40 Social media, backlash, and finding your voice
- 37:30 Why pivoting is the ultimate life skill
Key Takeaways
🔹 Reinvention doesn’t always mean starting over
🔹 Grief and purpose can exist at the same time
🔹 Aging brings clarity and courage
🔹 Pivoting is a skill that grows with time
Guest Bio
Mary Kay Andrews is a New York Times bestselling author with more than 30 novels published. A former newspaper journalist, she built a second career writing beloved Southern fiction and mysteries. Today, she is also known for her outspoken advocacy, powerful storytelling, and fearless honesty about aging, loss, and purpose.
Resources
- Mary Kay Andrews new book “Road Trip” https://amzn.to/3OebLVs
- Friends and Fiction:https://friendsandfiction.com/
- Helping Mamas: https://helpingmamas.org/
- Department Q: https://www.netflix.com/title/81487660
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- “Hope Possible” https://amzn.to/46uNoJ9
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